Never, ever alone [Easter 6A - John 14:15-21]

The Rt. Rev. Jeremiah Williamson

John 14:15-21

 

Never, Ever Alone

Church of the Messiah, Glens Falls

 

I have a little sister.  She is two years younger than me.  When we were children, she had a favorite movie.  We watched it all the time.  I could recite all the lines; I knew the catchy songs.  I enjoyed the dumb dog.  I appreciated that the male lead was bald. 

 

Annie, set during the Great Depression, was about the eponymous little orphan girl, remembered for her bright red afro, who is adopted by that wealthy bald man, Daddy Warbucks.  She lived a hard-knock life, in a smelly orphanage, with the great Carol Burnett, until, in the end, she finds her happily ever after.

 

It is little Annie whom I picture when I imagine an orphan.  I do not imagine eleven grown men – all free range, some with wives and children, some with parents who are, in fact, explicitly mentioned in the Bible doing things that the living do, like catching fish.

 

Today’s Gospel is a small portion of a larger conversation.  It is often called Jesus’ farewell discourse.  After washing feet and eating a Last Supper with his best friends, Jesus dismisses Judas to be about a betrayal.  He then says what needs to be said.  He spends four of John’s twenty-one chapters imparting words of wisdom to his closest friends – before he leaves, before he dies.

 

During this extended presentation, Jesus says some wonderful things.  He says, “Do not let your hearts be troubled.”  He says, “I am the vine, you are the branches.”  He says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.”  He says, “In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places.”  He says, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life.” 

 

And then also Jesus says, to his peer group, to his guys, to other adult men, “I will not leave you orphaned.”  Like he was their mom.  Like they were just little kids.

 

It is a peculiar phrase – one that the Monty Python guys could have had a lot of fun with.  I’ll bet it could make an amusing imagination in your own brain, if you simply imagine it.  But the silliness doesn’t stay silly if you stay with it and think about what Jesus is saying.  Like a phrase that at first feels like a joke until you realize it isn’t.  Like a quip that becomes the very thing that exposes everything we try to hide inside.

 

It is not only children who are scared to be alone.  Adults are too.  Like these adults.  Like those disciples.  It was Maundy Thursday, and there standing before Jesus, were these tough laborers, adults, with calloused hands and weathered skin, skin wrinkled by sun and worry.  Grown men with full bellies and clean feet.  And Jesus is telling them that in a little while they will no longer see him.  And they can’t live like that.  And Jesus can see that they are wearing their sudden heartbreak on their dusty sleeves.  The pain is escaping from their eyes in stubborn drops of saline, betraying their stoic bravado.  Because they too, like children, and also like all of us, are scared to be alone.

 

They just want to be with Jesus.  And he just keeps talking about leaving.  And they just keep interrupting, hoping to get directions.  Peter interrupts and asks, “Lord, why can I not follow you now?”  And then Thomas interrupts, with poorly concealed panic in his voice, “Lord, we do not know where you are going.  How can we know the way?”  They do not want to lose Jesus because if they do, they will be lost and alone.

 

In 2023, the US Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health epidemic.  In doing so, he, and his advisors, equated its mortality risk to smoking fifteen cigarettes daily.  The study explained that social isolation can increase the risk of premature death by up to 30%.  It further explained that loneliness triggers a chronic stress response which damages internal organs, fragments sleep, and suppresses the immune system.[1]  We are not made to be alone.

 

And God knows that.  God has been telling humankind that it is not good to be alone since the very beginning, since the Garden of Eden.  And so, Jesus tells his disciples, those of old and those of now, “I will not leave you orphaned.” 

 

And he didn’t.  Jesus left us a Comforter and a Community: both burning with the unquenchable flame of Divine Love.     

 

I am reminded of the great Holy Spirit hymn, Come Down, O Love Divine: “O Comforter draw near, within my heart appear, and kindle it, thy holy flame bestowing.”  The Holy Spirit, Jesus’ gift to us, does comfort us in our loneliness; and also companions us in our isolation.  So that we are never alone, but live, and move, and have our being the presence of the Divine.

 

And that Holy Spirit binds us to and fills us with the Love of our Ascended Jesus.  Us in Jesus and Jesus in Us.  It is that same Spirit, that holy flame of love, that allows us to keep the final and greatest commandment Jesus commanded.  As Jesus says in this same farewell, during that first Maundy Thursday: “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another.  Just as I have loved you, you should love one another.  By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

 

And it is this love, by the power of the Holy Spirit, that makes us a Community.  So that we are never alone.  The Body of Christ: us in Jesus and Jesus in us.  Jesus did not leave us alone.  He got closer.  His Spirit lives in each of us.  So, there is both Jesus in you and Jesus around you.  Jesus in each face, looking at you through the eyes of your friends and neighbors and even strangers.

 

There are more than eight billion people in the world, and many of them are dying of loneliness.  There are children and seniors, moms and dads, students and laborers, fragile humans: afraid to be left alone and lonely on this vast island home.  And Jesus sees us, sees our brave faces and our trembling souls.  And he loves us, with a burning passion and a tender heart.  And so Jesus makes this promise: I will not leave you orphaned.  And he didn’t.  He left us a Comforter and a Community so that we will never, ever be alone.

 



[1] https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf

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